Settle this: you drop a heavy parenting dilemma in the group chat and everyone gives wildly different advice. Pick 3 responses you actually listen to.

Options

• The friend with 3 kids who tells you 'just survive'
• The childless friend who sends an academic PDF
• The friend who immediately validates your stress
• The brutal truth-teller who says you're overreacting
• The one who sends a meme to defuse the tension
• I ignore them all and trust my gut