Which 'unglamorous reality' of adulthood/parenting hit you the hardest?

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• Endless grocery shopping loops
• Scheduling your own doctor appointments
• The sheer cost of good cheese
• Maintaining friendships takes actual labor
• You can't eat junk without physical pain
• The kitchen counter is always dirty
• Taxes, bureaucracy, and paperwork
• No more built-in summer breaks
• Buying decent furniture ruins your budget
• Realizing you have to re-parent yourself
• Hangovers now last three business days
• Realizing nobody actually knows what they're doing